Sometimes, it's not a matter of time that things happen/are happening. It is not about whether it is fast or not. It's not a matter of wanting to take things slow. But it's all about wanting to move.
Sometimes, the brain controls the heart. And sometimes, the heart is the decision maker.
The situation makes one decide. With the brain. Or with the heart.
But whatever it is, never assume if you don't know the real situation. Never. Because if u assume, they guess, then who confirm?