Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find theperson we LoVe we fail to recognize & appreciatethe people who LoVe us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things & simplybecause we allow ourselves to been slaved by ourown selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds & not for the man of wordsfor you will find rewarding happiness not with theman you LoVe but the man who LoVes you more.
The best LoVers are those who are capable ofLoVing from a distance, far enough to allow theother person to grow, but never too far to feel theLoVe deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have tostop LoVing, it only means that you allow thatperson to find his own happiness without expectinghim to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free,but it is also setting yourself free from allbitterness, hatred, & anger that keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength &weaken your faith & never allow pain to disheartenyou, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearingit.
You may found peace in just LoVing someone froma distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but cannever give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories ofthe past but real peace & happiness come onlywith open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chanceupon someone so nice & beautiful and we just findourselves getting so intensely attracted to thatperson.
This feeling soon become a part of our everydaylives & eventually consumes our thoughts & actions.
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize thatthis person feels nothing more for us than just afriendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed & becloser but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded& we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you LoVe.What you need to learn is how to accept theverdict of reality without being bitter or sorry foryourself.
Believe me; you would be better off giving thatdedication & LoVe to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible & letyour mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason aswell.A
lways remember that if you lose someone today,it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:
If you lose LoVe that doesn't mean that you failedin LoVe.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tearswash away the hurt & the bitterness that the pasthas left with you.
Let go of yesterday & LoVe will find its way back toyou & when it does, pray that it may be the LoVethat will stay & last a lifetime.
