..a continuation from the post on friends...

as mentioned, real true friends are difficult to find..
you can seek high and low for friends..
but not REAL friends..

some find it difficult..
whereas some find it easy..
and i believe, sometimes, it has something to do with YOU..

in order to get real friends..
you have to get friends that really understand you..
in and out..
to know what you are thinking of w/o having to speak a single word..
simply speaking with "the-look"..
*wink*

to those who find it difficult to get along with people..
who find it tough to have a topic with someone...
you have to start refelcting on yourself..
listen to yourself speak..
look at yourself...
search for flaws in yourself before judging others..
as mentioned, it has something to do with YOU.

friends don't normally tell you your mistakes..
cz they are afraid that they'll hurt your feelings..
all because they care for you..

friends tend to get along...
or maybe, they seem to get along..
but have you ever wonder whether whatever you let out of your mouth hurts anyone?
or whether you sound insensitive?
or boastful?
or simply something which has a negative effect on people?

if not..
then that simply explains everything doesnt it?

basically, it's all about self-realisation..
realise your own mistakes yourself..
and improve for the better...
for the betterment of your friendship...
with others.

then again, even if you are a good friend to others..
sometimes..
they might just not appreciate you..
when this happens, pls don't blame yourself..
cz it's not your fault to begin with..
its them..
some people are simply unappreciative..
like i said.."hie" and "bye" friends they are..
so yea...

reflect please...

'nuff said..