Thursday, February 23, 2006
even though im
suppose to be bz..
here's some of my thought..
abt certain issues which i believe
ever came across ur minds..
when it regards
relationships and
break-ups..
actually
read someone's blog..
speaking of failing relationships and break-ups..
and i know how difficult it is to deal with that..
trust me..been there, done that.
just
sharing my point of view..
leaving someone,especially after being together for some time is tough..
even if it's
mutual..
the sudden feeling of being lonely is hard to adapt..
and that's when
re-bounds occur..(pls avoid that)
things i did after a break up:
1. shop
2. socialise
3. go out wit frens
4. make myself bz wit things
and even that, the idea of th ex-partner will
not vanish..
it will still
linger, till God knows when..
sometimes, it doesnt seem to go away..
never..
no matter how hard we tried..
move on..
met someone new..
a whole new chapter..
however, ur past will still haunt u..
afraid..
scared..
comparison starts to happen..(
don't deny that people)
and even though u and th new guy are so happy together,
u will still think of th past..
darn! (yea, i know)
especially if th past guy relationship was ur first love..
even so, no one can ever help you on that..
it's all up to you..
ur
strength..
ur
believe in moving on...really moving on..
it's tough i know..
a
2-cents worth from me:-
never give urself or ur new partner false hope..
for th ladies:-believe me,whatever u went through, th males are finding it harder to cope..
even though they are seen wit someone new..
for th gentlemen:-agree??
i know u guys are th stronger gender..but..
if ur don't agree, its time to go for reality check,yes?
for my case:-i manage to put th past behind me..
realized how stupid i was..
haha..love was blind..
not anymore!
before u close this window, make ur VOTE!
just to see
ur views on th issue..
cheers!
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